5 wonderful years

One week ago tonight, I flew out to Disney World for one heck of a weekend doing a 10k race! I have tons of pictures and stories for another post but let's just say, my abs finally stopped hurting from laughter and I can finally walk up and down the stairs again post race. It's good to be back but boy, do I miss Disney World/Florida badly!

Top: Our first Disney World trip. June 2009.

Bottom: Right after he proposed: June 5, 2013

Today also marks 5 years since Jonathan and I officially started dating. We have a lot of little anniversaries we celebrate, like the first day we met (February 9, 2008) or our first date (March 7, 2008). So if we met and had our first date within a month's span, 6 years ago, how is our anniversary 5 years ago? Well, the answer to that is somewhat simple and can be explained in mathematical terms. You take 1 confused 22 year old + 1 determined 24 year old and you get 1 interesting year. There was a lot of ups and downs in 2008 but what I remember the most is how Jonathan was always there, even when he had to reluctantly step down and be "just a friend", though he likes to say he was never just a friend, and that is true! When I briefly dated someone else that summer, he never faded out of the picture. We hung out all the time regardless. In fact, my mom used to tell me she felt like I had two boyfriends. Huge, huge wake up call. Of course, the other thing didn't work out and God worked his mysterious ways and things just fell into place. It did take a year for things to happen but I now see that was a blessing in disguise. Since we went through every early relationship obstacle there was to have in that first year when we were not exclusive, we never really had a reason to have any big arguments when we got together. We had already seen the good, the bad and the ugly! 

That is why we really like to celebrate today. It had felt like we won a marathon by the time we got together! His grandmother, who would have been 91 this week, told him once that she had prayed we would get together. That is just the selfless kind of woman she was.

The event of making it official was so low-key, you would think there would have been some big hoopla when it happened, but nope! I had been talking to two dear friends of ours, Anthony and Gina (who are now married) all week but most especially the night before. Little did I know, they were talking to him and giving him encouragement too! I remember specifically Anthony asking me why wasn't I giving my best friend a chance. Another huge wake up call. I made up my mind that night that the following day I would ask him to be official. So, that's just what I did. :-)

I thought it would be appropriate to use the flashback picture from our 1st Disney World trip. To say we really love that place is an understatement! It's a good way to get to really know someone. You can see how they handle the heat and long lines, haha. I remember coming home from that trip and thinking, wow we just spent 4 nights and 5 days straight together, and I'm not sick of him yet. I thought that was a great sign. It's still true to this day :-D

Okay, that's enough mush for one post, lol. This has been a busy wedding planning week so plenty of updates in the next post :)

Getting things done!

Some miscellaneous wedding news:

- Two days ago, Jonathan spoke to Fr. Kevin over the phone, who became the new pastor of St. Sebastian's just last week and he was more than happy to marry us! Sweet! What's really ironic about all that is he was the priest I first had in mind to marry us anyway, but I figured it would be easier to use a current priest. Then Mnsgr. Hardiman surprised us by ending his run at our parish. When I heard Fr. Kevin was coming back as the new pastor, I was like no waaaay. Funny how it all played out! It was always important to me that one of us would be familiar with the priest and we both are, so that just worked really well.

- My wedding dress came in! And the veil as well! My mom and I were going to go this past Monday but if you're in New York, you know we're getting hit with snow day after snow days so there was no way we were venturing out in it. We rescheduled for this coming Monday, yippee!

- I settled on a bridesmaid dress but the hard part is finding a store that carries it for a decent price. Macy's has it for $265 and that's before alterations! I had to a double take. I am finding out quickly what's the norm nowadays for the cost of certain wedding things. It's crazy! There are a few stores  that carry it for a better price so this month's big "to-do" is finding a store that can tailor to all the girls' budget and location. I know I posted the picture in the last post but here is a visual reminder:

- I have my hair trial this month with Angela of Angela's Hair Design. I drool over her work that I see on her Instagram page. I'm not 100% sure what I want (can't decide if I want it all up or half up) but I trust she'll do a great job either way. Her website is here: Angela's Hair Design 

- Speaking of hair, my headpiece came in right on time. Thanks to my amazing mom for this beauty!

- We have another invitation appointment on March 1st with a company I'm really excited about, out in LI. Check out their website: Whimsy B. Designs (Isn't that crazy we have to start thinking about invitations already?!)

- On March 10th, we have the food tasting at our venue. Few things get us as excited as food does, lol.  

- I ordered our unity candle from a vendor named JaxDesigns27. Click the name to see her work! I know unity candles seem like a waste of a purchase when you're only going to use them once but I have a hard time saying "no" to anything personalized! She sent me the proof and I love love love it. I can't wait to see how it turns out.

- At the end of January, we attended a Sip & Scan event at the Macy's in Herald Square. I came prepared with a list of what we'd need but they also provided us with one when we arrived. The drinks were not cocktails but they were still very good (I guess they don't want you to be stumbling around their store drunk!), and small finger sandwiches and snacks. I did not plan to register 9 months out, but when I heard about the event, I said why not. I'd say it was exciting for about the first hour then we lost steam, lol. Luckily it's easy to manage online so going into the store every time you want to add or delete something is not necessary.

A weekend in the south

Last Saturday, I flew out with my dad and my brother Chris to visit my grandparents at their new home in Charlotte, North Carolina. As an added bonus, I got to see my uncles (my dad's brothers), aunts and the kids!

The plane had two seats per row hence Chris sitting behind us. Originally it was only going to be my dad & I but at the last minute, Chris decided to join us. My grandma was thrilled. Also, thanks to flying a whole lot in 2012, I was able to redeem my True Blue points and fly free! ....with the exception of a $5 tax fee, lol.

That morning, it was raining and visibility was practically 0%. I think it took 45 minutes to actually take off because the runway was backed up. Then, when we were trying to land, we had to circle around the sky a few times because the runway at CLT was also backed up! We landed shortly after noon. Getting home only took an hour and a half!! It was like night and day. (Ironically enough, flying home was at night.) But getting back to the flight to Charlotte....I am sad to report I actually had to use the barf bag for the first time ever on a flight. The turbulence just sent my stomach into a bad state. My lovely dad did a favor and covered me with his sweater, haha. I should note I had been out drinking for a friend's 30th the night before and had only 3 hours of sleep, hence the stomach problems. Never again do I recommend doing that a night before a flight! I ended up going to bed at 9:30 our first night, which is extremely rare for me, lol.

The visit itself was nothing short of wonderful. I am so happy for my grandparents. They went from a tiny apartment in Jackson Heights, Queens to this gorgeous house in NC.

This was the adorable guest room I slept in.

The first day, we went to dinner at Texas Roadhouse which did not disappoint. Afterwards, we went back to the house to relax and called it an early night. The second day, Sunday, I got to visit both my uncle Mark's house (he had just moved there a few months ago) as well as my uncle Scott's house, who has lived there for many years now. My little cousin Sierra gave me the grand tour of the house. She and Christopher, her older brother (who will be 10 this year! Time flies!) are such great kids. I managed to get a quick picture of Sierra in her room.

Mark and I share a love of Starbucks so of course we made a trip to the nearest one with baby Brandon as well as MB's mama, my aunt Lyn.

It was an extremely sunny day, haha. Isn't he the cutest?

I mean...seriously!!

In this last one, he saw his own reflection and made this face! I could eat him up!

Later that evening, I was able to spend more time with the kids at our grandparents house, just hanging out. Sierra & I had a blast with the bubbles in the yard.

The backyard space is huge!

We flew back to NYC Monday evening so that we could have the majority of the day with them. I am so happy to see my grandparents are doing well. They have a beautiful home in a beautiful city, their family nearby and the bonus is their other grandchildren around them so it's just a good thing. There is a big age gap between me and my siblings with Christopher, Sierra and Brandon but it just means the kids can enjoy Grandma & Grandpa now the way I got to enjoy them growing up. :-)

This is definitely my favorite picture of the trip: my grandparents & their boys. All that's missing is my aunt, Chrissy!

L-R: Grandma, Uncle Scott, Grandpa, my dad and my uncle Mark

Hard to believe it's already mid January...so much stuff to do before the month is over and on the 25th, we hit 9 more months to go...wow!

Bridesmaid dress hunt

On Monday, I got the itch to be productive, wedding wise, and told myself the hunt for a bridesmaid dress must begin. I had looked online here and there but nothing compares to seeing it in person. My mom and sister joined me at Macy's in Herald Square. The vibe of the bridal salon there compared to one in Manhasset, where I got my wedding dress, was completely different. It's not that the Manhattan location didn't have a nice staff. They just seemed tired and like they didn't want to be there. Nonetheless, they were nice enough to take me without an appointment! We went with the notion of "just looking" but then I did actually see a dress I liked! So the lady was able to take care of us before her appointment arrived.

I didn't have her try on many, since like I said, we didn't have an appointment. She put on different colors. Here was one. If I were having a spring or summer wedding, I would have absolutely gone with a shade like that!

In this one she's holding the dress I wanted her to try on, lol.

All the different shades.

             

          

 Bill Levkoff 496 in navy blue

At first Robyn was not digging the navy blue on her. We were both not expecting to try anything on, so she didn't come with her hair done or makeup on (not that she needs it to look pretty but you know how girls are!) so I convinced her that navy blue did look good on her. 

Isn't she nuts? I thought she looked great! She didn't have the sleeves up for the picture. I thought maybe to make her stand out as maid-of-honor she could add something sparkly around her waist or something. The other colors provided for this dress don't really fit the color scheme. I'm going for a fall look, think blues, orange, white, gold. I would put her in gold but the only color close to that is canary yellow. Too bright! Unless I change the color scheme and add purple (as an accent color) to the blue. The options are endless, really!

Robyn had asked me, why this brand? I heard many good things about Bill Levkoff's line and had seen enough to know I liked it. Plus, if this story isn't endorsement enough, I don't know what is!

I saw these pictures in October of Danielle Fishel's wedding (ya know, Topanga from Boy Meets World) and the dresses looked gorgeous. I had saved them to my phone for inspiration and Gina (one of my bridesmaids) sent me a link to those pictures shortly after! Great minds think alike! When Danielle posted a link to her pictures, I asked where these dresses were from.

And she actually responded! And was very sweet, too.

The best part of our time spent at Macy's was that they had my dress in the store! So I got to try it on again, which was much appreciated since I was starting to forget what it looked like on me! As an added bonus, they let me take pictures in it, which I couldn't do in Manhasset. I really appreciate that because now I have a visual. As an added bonus, my mom got me the headpiece to wear the day of! (Thanks mom <3) It's pretty and sparkly and that's good enough for me! It should come in by next month. This will be good to have so I can take with me to a hair trial. Speaking of hair, this is the one thing that I am clueless about. As of today, I don't have a set person or set style in mind. I would love to use the woman who does my highlights but it's not just me getting my hair done and I don't think she does weddings in that capacity. I did find one girl based in Astoria whose work looks really nice so I will contact her. At least I know she won't have to travel far! 

So far, January is starting off on the right foot! Not only in terms of checking things off the to-do list but also because right before the New Year, Jonathan started a new job! A friend of his from grade school (who just so happened to witness Jonathan proposing the night of! Small world right?!) hooked him up. The company is based in the Empire State Building so his commute hasn't changed much; he used to work in Rockefeller Center. Not only that but from my house in Woodside, when walking to the train, you can see the Empire State Building, so it's like I get to "see" him, if I'm in the area while he's at work. This job couldn't have better timing! Thank the good Lord. Too bad nothing opened up in California! ;)

Happy New Year!

I love New Year's Eve. The excitement of the countdown is hard to beat, for me anyhow, between the anticipation of the new year and the leaving behind of the previous one. I've always enjoyed it but the excitement of this countdown was tenfold because this is our wedding year! Yeah!

Jonathan and I rang in the new year at the McKeever household in downtown Manhattan with Kim's sister Lauren present, as well as my brother Chris and Tiffany. We missed having my sister there but her boyfriend had gotten them tickets to the party at Resorts Casino. Next year, we will be all together, I hope. Kim and Vinnie were great hosts, and Kim made many delicious snacks. Thanks, Mcs!

I was really into it, huh?

Christmas this year was very nice. Our first one engaged and last one unmarried. Next Christmas, we will be married two months to the day. So weird! Anyway, on to Christmas itself. Jonathan and I spent Eve together for the first time since 2009! I hadn't even realized that until he pointed it out. He came with me to Farmingdale, where we go every Eve. My cousins, from my mother's side, host it every year. It's always fun but this year Jonathan brought along his Elf and Santa costumes. Bernie took over the role of Santa to Jonathan's elf and I have to say, it was a hit! I know Jonathan enjoyed keeping the tradition alive and it will definitely be sticking around in the years that we attend. We even crashed the next door neighbor's Christmas Eve in the costumes! They loved it too, and that family took tons of pictures with "Santa" and "Elf". Success!

 My mom's family is really tall, hence the Santa pants not fitting Bernie. Hysterical! It's like a tropical Santa!

I know myself, Ayla and Eliza loved having Jonathan with us on Eve! :)

For Christmas Day, we spent it at Jonathan's house and some family came over for a delicious meal cooked by his parents. It wasn't as busy as other years with the passing of Jonathan's Uncle Dom and Rob and Jean not being able to come in, but it was still very enjoyable of course.

How cute is this child? Her Christmas outfit killed me! I never thought about dressing my future daughters in bows until Victoria came around, lol.

And Johnny with one of his many gifts :)

Later that night, even though we were pooped by that point, we headed over to my parents' house to see them for a bit. By the time we got there, everything had winded down but the girls were still up so they got to open our gifts to them!

This photo isn't Christmas night but it's just to show one of their gifts. They both love Elmo (though now Ayla has gotten into Mickey and all things Disney, yay! Proud cousin right here, lol) and they both sleep on their own so I figured a personalized pillow case would be fun.

But on Christmas they enjoyed their fake food and fairy costumes!

The 26th was also nice and felt like an extended Christmas because Jonathan's aunt Rosemary came over as well as his cousin Alexis and her husband, Gaetano. But while it was good to see them, it was also very sad as we really felt the loss of Uncle Dom that night. It was surreal to be celebrating Christmas without him. Even though it's been many months since he's passed, it is still hard to believe he is no longer here. I am glad I got to know him these past few years. He will have a front row seat to the wedding, that's for sure.

Speaking of the wedding, now that the holiday season is over, it's time to start getting into the wedding planning craze again. We allowed ourselves to take a break after the save the dates were mailed out but there's still plenty left to do. The two things we have to do this month is: register for pre-cana and book our flights to Hawaii. 

We were thrown a curve ball last month when we learned that the pastor of Saint Sebastian's, Monsignor Hardiman, was leaving! I didn't know until now that a priest can only be pastor for twelve years at a certain parish. I was sad to hear that regardless of the fact that he was supposed to marry us. But the funny part about that is, the new pastor is Father Kevin, the priest I first had in mind! (He was also a priest at St. Sebastian's many years ago.) He is young, only a couple of years older than us, and married two friends of ours years ago, who also had their reception at Chateau Briand! Since Father Kevin doesn't start until the first of February, I have to wait to talk to him. My fingers are crossed no one else has him saying their wedding the same day.

Christmas Ornaments!

Every time I pass this tree, I always have to stop and take a look at my favorite ornaments. I don't know if it's the fondness for it or the slight OCD, lol, but either way, I figured I'd share some of my favorites.

We got this one on our Disney trip the week (and a half) after we got engaged. When we buying it, a woman next to us said "Oh is that your engagement date? That's my wedding anniversary!" How funny.

 I love this one of two lobsters singing Christmas carols. We picked this one up on our trip to Maine last   winter while celebrating our 4th dating anniversary.

I got this one to save for next year. Just came today! I couldn't help myself! It's from PersonalizationMall.com. If you love personalized stuff, this site is like crack.

This one I picked up earlier this week at one of those ornament booths at the mall (Roosevelt Field). I can't be trusted around anything that is personalized. 

The inspiration for it came from this picture we took during our summer Disney vacation this past year: 

This one we made after our Disney World trip in 2012. The frame of the ornament depicts the symbols representing each of the four parks: the Sorcerer's hat with Mickey ears for Hollywood Studios, the castle for Magic Kingdom, the globe for Epcot and the Tree for Animal Kingdom. In the picture, we are standing in front of the Days of Christmas store in Downtown Disney. Needless to say, this definitely made the list of favorites!!

Need I say more!

One of my favorite ornaments, of Jonathan's, that he'll definitely be taking with him next year!

We have so many saved in a bin for our first official (married) Christmas together. Just another thing to look forward to!

Happy Birthday Victoria!

Today, this sweetie pie turned 2! 

iPhoto shows you the pictures taken in the last 12 months, which of course means that the first pictures shown today are from her 1st birthday. Crazy how she's grown since then. (Yeah I know, that's what babies do...they grow, lol)

And here she was on her day of birth:

Over the weekend we had celebrated by going to Bounce U, this place in Brooklyn that had all these blow up bouncy contraptions for the kids to run around in. The afternoon ends in a room with pizza and cake. It reminds me a little of Discovery Zone from back in the day. (Anyone remember that place?!) This particular Bounce U was connected to an Asian supermarket. We had never been there before and didn't realize there was a separate entrance to get in. Jonathan, his parents and I literally walked all around the supermarket before figuring it out. Priceless!! We couldn't stop laughing at our mistake.  Here are some pictures from the party.

Victoria is, for those that are not familiar (I'm not actually sure who reads this!) the daughter of Jonathan's sister a.k.a one of our cutie flower girls :)